Real talk: If you want someone to fulfill EVERYTHING, that person does not exist. As Author & Therapist Esther Perel says, you can’t expect one person to fulfill what a whole village used to for humans. An example of unrealistic expectations: You want your partner to be driven and Type A when you need it, …
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Everything I do is to make this little girl proud. No it’s not my daughter. It’s the kid version of me. (I imagine when you have kids, most of this switches to them). Yup, whenever I’m questioning what I’m doing with my life, I think about kid-me. What would she think if she saw that …
When I decided to write my first book and share more personal growth material, I had serious imposter syndrome (still working on it). It’s one of the reasons I hid behind my camera as a photographer for 15 years, because it was more comfortable telling other people’s stories. “Who am I to share my story …
Note: This post is for people who are results-driven. 🙂 Whenever I’m putting a new product out to market, I ask my target audience for feedback. Like for my book SHOW UP: Finding Love for Independent Women, I had a graphic designer make 2 cover options and asked 50 women who were my target audience, …
I published my first book last month. To be honest I started writing it about two years ago. I opened my laptop, started typing text into a Google doc, and then I closed my laptop and didn’t touch it for another 18 months. Then I made some lifestyle changes and the book was up and …
Ask yourself: Why do you like to make love complicated? Does it feel more significant when it’s complicated? More romantic? Are you addicted to the push and pull? Have you only seen examples of turbulent relationships, so you think they must be that way?
This post is an excerpt from my book Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women. Now available on Amazon!
“Water is fluid, soft, and yielding. But water will wear away rock, which is rigid and cannot yield. As a rule, whatever is fluid, soft, and yielding will overcome whatever is rigid and hard. This is another paradox: what is soft is strong.” – Lao Tzu Tapping into my soft side brings me joy. When …
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I was babysitting my niece and nephew. We made paper airplanes and they started coloring them. My nephew saw my niece drawing princesses on her plane and he got mad. He told her to stop because, “Airplanes don’t have princesses on them!” I said, “Adam, there are all sorts of airplanes, even ones with princesses …
If you are in building stage, whether it be for business, relationship, or a special project, you have to be located close in order to nurture the best results. The closer the proximity, the better. Location location location. Say you want to be a movie actress in America. The best place for you to be …
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